friend Zone

[DownSide]

Dont u h8 it when when girls dont like u and put u in there friend zone just bcuz you not good looking or over wieght but your a nice guy. then they date jerks and say guys are jerks and they do that over and over again how do you guys deal with this??
LOL this is more of a rage post

[Waterboy7]

I am that handsomely guy they date :P



http://i295.photobucket.com/albums/mm148/muerto38/Just-Friends_Poster02-1.jpg

[Danimal04]

^ good luck with that. I'm sure all the ladies love how "handsomely" you are".

On a real note. Idk how old you are but girls once they get to like 22 or 23 will have been fucked over or played enough times to want a nice guy. Wait it out.. continue to be successful and do what you do. Teabaggin kids in reach seems to make me feel better...

[Mosquito]

I honestly don't believe in the "Friend Zone". It's just a place guys made up for the girls that are not interested in them.

[heuer89]

Dont u h8 it when when girls dont like u and put u in there friend zone just bcuz you not good looking or over wieght but your a nice guy. then they date jerks and say guys are jerks and they do that over and over again how do you guys deal with this??
LOL this is more of a rage post

There is a high probability that this is caused because u tawk lik dis n dun bthr 2 spl tings.































































But honestly though that's life. It sucks. Shit happens. Those types of girls will most likely never get it and won't change. You can't be taught how to get over it, but eventually you will learn how and realize girls like that don't matter.

[gwhit518]

honestly dude, if theyre dating jerks you dont want to date them. Ive learned from experience that those are the girls you think you want but really you wouldnt be happy with them. The funniest thing in the world is to find someone who does love and appreciate you and flaunt it around them. The girls who date jerks soon realize that they do want a nice guy like you and theyre just a bit to late, so you win in both aspects.

Im just like you, im on the bigger side and am for damn sure no model, but I can use this to my advantage. Gently making fun of yourself is a great way to show girls that your light hearted, funny and dont give two shits about anyone's opinion. These 3 things lead to confidence and confidence is the sexiest thing in the world.

If your in the "friend zone", forget about this girl (dating wise), stay friends with her if you can, meet her friends. <-- Also funny to flaunt in her face haha :) Dont worry about it, this happens to every guy eventually, it sucks now but it wont matter when your truely happy with a girl who loves you. AND DONT CHANGE FOR NO BITCH - no girl is worth who you are and who you want to be!

Hope this helped!

[Antidote]

It gets better when you get out of high school. Or middle school or whatever.

[SullyVan]

honestly dude, if theyre dating jerks you dont want to date them. Ive learned from experience that those are the girls you think you want but really you wouldnt be happy with them. The funniest thing in the world is to find someone who does love and appreciate you and flaunt it around them. The girls who date jerks soon realize that they do want a nice guy like you and theyre just a bit to late, so you win in both aspects.

Im just like you, im on the bigger side and am for damn sure no model, but I can use this to my advantage. Gently making fun of yourself is a great way to show girls that your light hearted, funny and dont give two shits about anyone's opinion. These 3 things lead to confidence and confidence is the sexiest thing in the world.

If your in the "friend zone", forget about this girl (dating wise), stay friends with her if you can, meet her friends. <-- Also funny to flaunt in her face haha :) Dont worry about it, this happens to every guy eventually, it sucks now but it wont matter when your truely happy with a girl who loves you. AND DONT CHANGE FOR NO BITCH - no girl is worth who you are and who you want to be!

Hope this helped!

Well said. Couldn't have said it any better

[Chilley]

i know that tln is open to help people with almost any problem, but girl advice, seriously?

[gwhit518]

i know that tln is open to help people with almost any problem, but girl advice, seriously?

hey man this is probably the best place, we all have a lot in common here. Im sure many of the regular TLN users have had a very similar issue. I mean we are all gamers, and pretty hardcore about it, so what better place to get advice?
He could have gone to another forum that may specialize in this kind of situation but the advice would come from people who many have nothing in common with him and the advice may not have directly applied to his situation. I feel as I can relate very closely to his experience and therefore can provide better help than someone who cant. The TLN family will help with any problem :)

[Forc3]

I don't believe that the "friend zone" exists. The key is patience. Good things come to those who wait. If you are friends with a chick, then you have planted your seed. Nurture it, watch it grow, and when the right time comes, be ready and pounce. Then you can give her your seed, knaw mean?

[gwhit518]

Well said. Couldn't have said it any better

Muchas Gracias :)

[DownSide]

honestly dude, if theyre dating jerks you dont want to date them. Ive learned from experience that those are the girls you think you want but really you wouldnt be happy with them. The funniest thing in the world is to find someone who does love and appreciate you and flaunt it around them. The girls who date jerks soon realize that they do want a nice guy like you and theyre just a bit to late, so you win in both aspects.

Im just like you, im on the bigger side and am for damn sure no model, but I can use this to my advantage. Gently making fun of yourself is a great way to show girls that your light hearted, funny and dont give two shits about anyone's opinion. These 3 things lead to confidence and confidence is the sexiest thing in the world.

If your in the "friend zone", forget about this girl (dating wise), stay friends with her if you can, meet her friends. <-- Also funny to flaunt in her face haha :) Dont worry about it, this happens to every guy eventually, it sucks now but it wont matter when your truely happy with a girl who loves you. AND DONT CHANGE FOR NO BITCH - no girl is worth who you are and who you want to be!

Hope this helped!

thanks bro this is some good advice

[gwhit518]

thanks bro this is some good advice

No problem man, really glad I could help :)

[Shelly]

I'm in a similar situation, except instead of the "friend zone", I'm just "one of the guys".
Kind of sucks, but you learn to deal.

[DownSide]

I'm in a similar situation, except instead of the "friend zone", I'm just "one of the guys".
Kind of sucks, but you learn to deal.

Shelly your awsome i dont c y your in the freind zone

[HavkinKnight]

maybe thats y i joked with Shelly so much. Na man its gonna be alright no worries live life enjoy it and find What and Who makes YOU happy not let your Peen decide who it wants to be in.

[MichaelMongrel]

The right girl won't put you in the "friend zone" as we know it. Hey, maybe you'll be friends with a common interest in each other, but if you become really good friends, you never know if it might go a step further. And if you've even made it that far, chances are that girl is with you to stay. Yaknowhaimean?

[D Moralize]

I don't believe that the "friend zone" exists. The key is patience. Good things come to those who wait. If you are friends with a chick, then you have planted your seed. Nurture it, watch it grow, and when the right time comes, be ready and pounce. Then you can give her your seed, knaw mean?

I think this dosen't happen 90% of the time, and the 9% of the times it does is just because you were both too shy to tell each other about your feelings, for most people you know pretty quickly if you would be interested in dating someone, it dosen't really take months and months or years of knowing someone to know if you like them or not.

Sadly most of the time you get friend zoned their opinion of you will never change into a romantic one unless you make a drastic life change, lose weight, gain confidence, inherit money and buy cool shit, something like that. If they haven't realized you are an awesome guy in the past 4 months you've been hanging out they probably won't, or something else about you is preventing them from liking you. You are typecast into a role, and usually its better to look for someone else and not get hung up on someone who is keeping you in the friend zone.

Best thing to do is just be confident in yourself for who you are, thats why all those really ugly dudes that date hot girls are also very dumb. They are too dumb to be self conscious so they walk around with maximum swagger and pick up all the ladies. (stereotyping I know)